Would you rather make decisions alone or would you rather try to work them out with another person?
It all depends. Most decisions I prefer to make on my own, but major decisions, particularly if they involve relationships, I value having the input from my therapist. He is a very wise man and I value his opinion and he sees things from a perspective that I often times have not considered. I may not follow his advice, but I always take it into consideration and we together may come to a compromise decision about the situation. He has helped me more than I can say. His advice doesn’t always work; the relationships I seek his advice about are extremely complicated and even though he knows quite a bit about the people involved, people don’t always respond in the way we think they will. I consider myself to be so lucky to have this man in my life to help me make decisions about relationship and other major decisions.